TEND · BEFORE THE WEDDING

Six conversations. Before the vows.

An AI walks you and your partner through six premarital sessions — one question at a time. By text, by email, or together on screen. Free to start.

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THE SIX SESSIONS

The conversations that change everything.

01

Vision

What does the marriage look like five years in?

02

Money

What did money mean growing up — and where do you two differ?

03

Family

What you carry forward. What you leave behind.

04

Conflict

How you fight, and what happens when it goes wrong.

05

Friendship & Intimacy

When you feel most known. When you feel most alone.

06

Vows

What you haven't said yet.

HOW IT WORKS

Simple by design.

1

Enroll

Pick your channel: text, email, or screen. Takes 60 seconds.

2

Go one at a time

One session per week. Answer when you're ready.

3

Bring it to your vows

Every session is saved. Share with your officiant or keep it for yourselves.

"Most couples prepare for the wedding. Almost nobody prepares for the marriage."

PICK YOUR CHANNEL

Three ways to go through it.

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Text message

One question at a time. Reply when you're ready.

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Weekly email

One session per week. Write longer answers.

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Together on screen

Sit down together. Go through it live at tendmarriage.com/workbook.

Matt and Heather Headley
Tend Marriage

Matt & Heather Headley

Twenty-two years in. We built this because we needed it — and because every couple we’ve sat with needed it before we could actually help them.

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Free. No app. 10% of proceeds support early childhood literacy through UWECA and the Imagination Library.

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